Sages

St Jean Marie Vianney. Tuesday 4th August, 2020

The life and story and myths surrounding St Jean are for us all. He was not an academic man yet although he failed many of the intellectual prerequisites for the priest hood the Bishop still ordained him. He must have recognised the innate goodness and faith, recognised his true worth, outside the bureaucracy and formal certificates so many vocations sometimes foolishly demand. He was the Parish Priest of Arles for over 40 years. His parishioners would not allow the Bishop to move him. Throughout Europe he gained an immense reputation as a man of understanding, wisdom and insight, as a great confessor. He reminds me of Padre Pio also considered a remarkable confessor to whom many flocked to unburden themselves, to seek insight and guidance in things spiritual. Both men were inundated by people seeking spiritual direction, seeking to come to terms with themselves and their burdens. Neither man ever turned anyone away even though exhausted and ever in demand. 

To me there is nothing more awesome, terrifying and exhilarating than a person who 'can read one's soul'. There are people, and we call them by many titles, who truly can discern the inner thoughts, turmoils, concerns and ultimate character of others. They are not infallible. Personally I have encountered three such in my life.

It is awesome as there is something beyond the realm of one's experience dwelling within them. One described it as merely " being a mouthpiece" for an inner voice and guide. "I don't know whence my words come, it is as if I am taken over". 

It is terrifying as such people are usually direct, honest as well as kind. They do not however like humbug or dissimulation. Is one able to accept a blunt truth as to oneself, one's life and the necessary changes or routes in to the future? A friend once related to me that he has been told he was " a gross deceiver of himself and others". He was told that he "knew what to do, how to act but constantly sought other's advice in an attempt to justify his inertia and current way of life".

It is exhilarating because, in my case, it felt as if someone knew me and had the strength and insight to guide, persuade and support me to my true self. They cared and knew. 

In all cases, and certainly in those of Vainney and Pio, there is kindness. They do not seek to destroy one, to humiliate or ridicule but rather to find the right path and to support one on to it. People can be gentle and kind as well as being honest and outspoken. They want the good. They want to help. They see a way of helping one to seek. For this reason they are  sought out as people long to be themselves. 

I am sure most of us know much of ourselves but find it hard to face or even to articulate. A loving perceptive friend, spiritual guide is a gift beyond price. We all need advisors, counsellors especially those who are wise and insightful.